Why, why, why do we stress over the way people act. Relationships with people are not how they are as we see in our head.
If I do this, they will do that. If I act this way, they will act this way. No ma’am and no sir.
Some people lay awake at night trying to figure out what they need to do so someone can act they way they want them to act. Stop wasting brain cells because it’s not happening.
People are who they are and they don’t always do what they say they will do. And they certainly won’t do what you want them to do, especially if the actions are in YOUR head.
Switch your thoughts so you can de-stress from hoping and waiting for people to act a certain way. While you are daydreaming about how you want someone to be so you can feel good about yourself, there is someone else doing the same thing about you.
No one should change for anyone. Be yourself.
Because in the end, Watcha See is Whatcha Get!